Marriage Discussion~ Read Patiently about this tradition & culture: NDISHI TRADITION IN ENUGU-EZIKE Ndishi is a spiritual being seen only by those who violated the tradition of marital fidelity. The tradition is as old as Enugu-Ezike instituted by Ezike Oba(The ancestral father whom the town was named after) himself before he died. The tradition is binding on every child of Enugu-Ezike. It revolves around having extramarital affairs with another man’s wife or even an obvious intention to do so through kissing or having your hand across the waist of another man’s wife which is seen as synonymous with sex. Once a lady’s pride price is paid, she cannot for any reason have an affair with another man other than her husband. A widow is forbidden to have an affair while inside her late husband’s house or risk the death of her first son. If she wants to do such a thing she must be relocated to another house. If she gets tired and wants to come back to her late husband’s house, she will con...